Congratulations you're engaged! Now ... who is supposed to pay for what?
It's the side of weddings that no one really talks about, everyone tries to keep the payment responsibilities hush-hush. It's a conversation best had at the beginning of your wedding planning process, where all parties [both your family and his] can come together and talk about what everyone is willing [or capable] of paying.
There isn't a formula for payment responsibilities, and there certainly isn't a "normal" scenario. However, there is a list of traditional responsibilities that is a great place to start the conversation.
So You're Engaged ... Now Who Pays for What?
Brides Payment Responsibilities:
- Grooms Ring
- Bridesmaid Gifts
- Groom's Gift
- Parent's Gifts
- Bridesmaid Hair & Makeup for the Day-Of
Bride's Family Payment Responsibilities:
- Wedding Invitation Suites [including Save-the-Date, Invitations, thank you cards, Menu's, Programs, etc.]
- Engagement Party
- Wedding Planner [The Bridal Solution, llc.]
- Bridal Gown and accessories
- Bridal Luncheon
- Bridesmaid Bouquets
- Ceremony & Reception Florals
- Ceremony & Reception Site and Decor
- Entertainment for Ceremony & Reception
- Food for Reception
- Photographer
- Videographer
- Wedding Cake
- Transportation
- Vendor Gratuities
- Post-Wedding Brunch
Groom's Payment Responsibilities:
- Engagement & Wedding Ring for Bride
- Bridal Bouquet
- Gift for the Bride
- Groomsmen & Usher Gifts
- Marriage License
- Officiant Fee's
- Groomsmen Boutonnieres
- Groom's Attire and accessories
- Honeymoon [includes transportation]
Groom's Family Payment Responsibilities:
- Rehearsal Dinner Food & Beverages
- Wedding Attire
- Wedding Gift
- Reception & Cocktail Hour Beverages
- Groom's Cake
- Groom's Family Out-of-Town Guests Accommodations if Needed
Attendant Payment Responsibilities:
- Bachelor/Bachelorette Parties
- Bridal Showers
- Wedding Gifts
- Their Own Wedding Day Attire
Again, these are traditional financial responsibilities, and in today's world, when it comes to planning a wedding, anything goes! If you would like more information on Who Pays for What or would like to schedule a meeting with Natalie to discuss your upcoming wedding, please email Natalie at
thebridalsolution@gmail.com.
Happy Planning!
Natalie Imhoff
thebridalsolution@gmail.com
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